Re: Cheating partner?
First of all, from an objective point of view, can you rate the looks/attractiveness of yourself, your boyfriend and the other boy.
You say you're not jealous, but it seems like you are (or you're in denial?). There also seems to be some serious trust issues. I can only guess that these might stem from: (1) past friendships/relationships where you were burned; (2) you think that if it were you in that situation (that your bf is in) then you would cheat on him with another person; or (3) you have a strange suspicion that your bf is a smooth talking sly fox and your sixth sense is warning you to not trust him. If it's 1 or 2, these are issues that you can solve yourself, but if it's 3 I would say go with your instincts and break it off otherwise it will be more painful the longer you stay in the relationship and fall deeper in love.
P.S. These are my opinions only! I'm sorry you're going through such dramas, but these things usually solve themselves out eventually.
Also, I'm very much a practical person. I don't believe in a "one true love" but I do believe in commitment. Is it worth the stressing and worrying if your bf is not offering you the same level of commitment that you give to him?
There are many boys in the world for you to find if this relationship doesn't work out :P
Last edited by hectopascal; Oct 5th, 2011 at 01:34 PM.