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post #1 of 25 (permalink) Old Apr 23rd, 2011, 09:54 AM Thread Starter
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Is this a sign of interest from a girl at work?

Ok, I need some help as I don't want to mess things up at work so need to be careful.

A girl who I have worked with for the past 6 months (who is very pretty) came to my room after work on a friday after work. She said she is thinking of joining a gym (she knows I like the gym so it might have been a excuse), then she said is it possible to meet people there (as in meeting a partner) as she is single. she says she has been single for a while and is worried she might be single forever (she's 26), i told her i'm single then she said you're a man and you'll be able to pull even when you are 40.....then she asked me if its possible to meet someone at work so i thought about it and while i thought about it she hesitated and said "maybe not" in a shy way.

btw, this happened about a month ago but only now have i had time to think it through

this is my text convo with her last night(currently in a 2 week holiday):

Me: i thought of u today for some reason, anyway hows ur holiday?
her: aw did u? holidays been fab mate, just had bbq, started raining, great eh? hows urs hun?
me: yeh i did. raining? weather great over here chilling out next to pool. i had bbq on wed, maybe we are more similar than i thought haha
her: haha maybe we r?!! i'm feeling so relaxed now...must be the way u feel all the time. am jealous. (she knows i'm laid back and she's a more anxious person)
me: wow, ur relaxed? oh no ur not back on the cigs r u?
her: haha yeh totally! giving up 2mz tho
me: i can so read ur mind. i'll be able to tell other things about u. off to bed now got long day 2moz. nite sweet dreams x

anyone got any opinions? is she playing hard to get now or is that a way to show interest.

what do you guys think? is this a sign she is interested in me?

any opinion would be much appreciated, thanks.
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post #2 of 25 (permalink) Old Apr 23rd, 2011, 12:19 PM
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hard to say maybe you should try to give her a "hint" if she really do or not



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It sounds like you're flirting more with her than she is with you.

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You seem almost desperate for some sort of 'signals' and are therefore reading too much into it.
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Shes teasing you man, its what chicks do to each other - sorry

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I agree that you seem more flirty than she does. Her responses just seem standard and there's nothing there that screams she's into you.
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Oh, you evil queens do not be so harsh on the poor pal Dude, just ask her out for drinks after work sth casual and see how it goes.
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I can't see anything that would suggest that she's into you, but mate there's nothing stopping you from trying. Just go for it and see what happens.

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guys, i'm not talking mainly about the text messages but the stuff said to me which i wrote in the first paragraph
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She called you mate?? I thought this was sth guys used to tell to their friends, not girls
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You should ask her out. You're already friends so its a win-win whether she say yes or no.

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guys, i'm not talking mainly about the text messages but the stuff said to me which i wrote in the first paragraph
Even then. She's not going to sit there talking to you about joining a gym to go meet a guy if she was into you. At the end of the day though, what's stopping you? Yeah there's a chance of rejection, but there's a chance she might accept so there's really nothing to lose.

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Key word: "mate"
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just ask her out dont complicate things

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Re: Is this a sign of interest from a girl at work?

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btw, this happened about a month ago but only now have i had time to think it through

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Are you interested in her at all?
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