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post #1 of 66 (permalink) Old Apr 4th, 2011, 03:55 AM Thread Starter
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Would you date a transsexual?

I'm most interested in answers by gay men. Would you guys date an FTM man?

Some explanation would be helpful.

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Love long has taken for his amulet/One perfect rose.
Why is it no one ever sent me yet/One perfect limousine, do you suppose?
Ah no, it's always just my luck to get/One perfect rose.

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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

What percent of FTM transexuals want to sleep with men ? Most of them are into women, right ?
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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

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What percent of FTM transexuals want to sleep with men ? Most of them are into women, right ?
I don't know if "most" are into women, but I believe that there is a sizable percentage who are into men.
Just as there are many MTF transsexuals who identify as lesbian following their transition.

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Deep-hearted, pure, with scented dew still wet - One perfect rose.
I knew the language of the floweret;/'My fragile leaves,' it said, 'his heart enclose.'
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Why is it no one ever sent me yet/One perfect limousine, do you suppose?
Ah no, it's always just my luck to get/One perfect rose.
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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

I've seen some pictures of FTM and boy there were some handsome specimens.

I guess we'd need to work out some technical issues but why not.

I'd be curious about his personality. Knowing that he was previously a woman, i'd prolly notice or actually try to spot fem characteristics and stuff.

Has he still got mental boobs?

That's be interesting. Not sure how it would end up, but yes, i'd def give it a shot.

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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

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The sexual orientation of trans men is usually expressed with respect to male identity. Therefore a trans man who prefers female partners is considered heterosexual.[17] Some transpeople identify as heterosexual, some as homosexual or bisexual, and some refuse to use conventional sexual orientation labels to describe to whom they are attracted.[11] One study suggests that prior to transition, female-to-male transsexuals tended to base their sexual orientation identities more on their gender identities and affectional preferences than on their sex identities, physical preferences, or sexual practices. After transition, female-to-male transsexuals who were sexually active were additionally able to make use of their gender identity role to base their sexual orientation identities on their sex identities. Forty percent of participants who were 10 or more years post-transition reported having been sexually attracted to gay men.[18]
Wow. That seems like a high percentage!
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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

To answer the question, if the FTM looked like Bradley Cooper, yes, I would date them. And yes I am shallow.
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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

omg.
if im being honest, no.


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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

Honestly no but I would be friends with one for sure.

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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

So lets say Mauresmo as a FTM transitions and starts looking like Feliciano Lopez or Tommy Haas, would you guys not date him ?
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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

no, I don't think I would.
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So lets say Mauresmo as a FTM transitions and starts looking like Feliciano Lopez or Tommy Haas, would you guys not date him ?
What does a FTM post-op dick look like?
*googled it*
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What does a FTM post-op dick look like?
*googled it*
nah uh.
I can't take.
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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

Well, there's this really REALLY sexy FTM guy I know who I would probably hook up with (as in I really want to). But this particular guy I don't think I'd want to be in a relationship with, just personality wise.
The sex part does scare me, to be honest. Just because I wouldn't know the particular insecurities/wishes of that person in their identification, or comfort in the way people want to be seen/touched especially when they are recently transitioned. A friend of mine dated an FTM guy and she said that at first she had difficulty feeling comfortable going down on him, but eventually their sex was great (which seems pretty typical of any relationship, to be honest).

So yeah, depending on the person, I probably would. The only other issue is I'm such a bottom. Hmmm. That is a tough one.

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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

If they feel like a guy (this is more important, since I am not attracted to guys only because of their physical features), look like a guy and have a big cock then why not?

I havent been attracted to the FTMs that I have come across so far.

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Re: Would you date a transsexual?

Yes. I can't see a reason why I wouldn't if I found them attractive.

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