have you ever found someone really really hot, but when you got to know her/his own personality totally changed your mind and found this one barely good looking?
for me it happened more than once (even the contrary), so my question is, don't you think that beauty goes far more deeper than what we see?
Hell yes. I remember, I was all fangirling about the hottest guy of my year promo at school, everyone wanted him, but he was dating a girl for more than one year. We barely talked to each other. One day, he asked me out, I was like "but you are dating her, so the answer is obvious I guess". Okay. One week later, he came back to me and told me he broke up with her, and wanted me to go on a date.... Of course I said no, because he looked so stupid and rude with girls. He turned average looking to my eyes.
Another example : 9 years ago, I met someone, we became friends, nothing really ambiguous between us, I didn't find him attractive, just average, and it was the same for him. After two friends of friendship, we fell for each other blablah... it happened with another guy as well.
Actually, I believe when you bump into the guy/girl you used not to find attractive , you still don't think "wow he/she is so beautifuuuuuuuuulllll wooow", but you see him/her differently, and your heart beats harder, you have butterflies in your stomatch..
It's more than attraction, beauty... That's just it.
inner beauty is so overrated
looks is what matters
Are you kidding ?
Yeah. But then I found someone really beautiful both physically and personally and I'm just
Yeh, we have to catch up really soon.
I've been told on numerous occasions that the guys I find extremely attractive are actually just sort of average looking. So, whatever. There's probably something to that.
I know right
That's I have always hated, when people judge you because you fell for someone who is not "wow-ish" , that's so annoying. A few years back, I confessed to a close friend that I was inlove with a guy. Unfortunately she hated him although he has done nothing to her, she was like "HE IS FUCKING UGLY YOU CANNOT DATE HIM, he is ugly !" . I tried to tell her he had always been nice to me, so she should care more about it than his looks, and she asked me to choose between her or the guy because she was ashamed I was blinded. Totally ridiculous...