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I just lost my love...

I just broke up with my girlfriend... I don't know why we did... I might have not shown her enough love, eternal doubter as I am... But never ever did a girl better understand me; never ever did I feel more relaxed and myself with someone... Why this? I realized too late I really love her and need her... but she won't accept that... I'm the kind of person who never really lets someone love them, but I think she came further loving me than anyone ever has except for my mother when I was a child... I know, I sound like a total jurk, but that's what life's experiences do with someone after a while... I don't think I'll ever miss someone more than I'll miss her... On the other hand, I know in a way this would be good to be my own man and be independent in my decision-making for once, grow up, and sort myself and my many issues out... But she's like a little part of me... Without her I'm lost... (I know I know, you ladies will probably be eye-rolling)
Lol, sorry for the drama people... I'm just at loss, in shock, and really needed to vent (sorry for the wasted space mods).
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I just broke up with my girlfriend... I don't know why we did... I might have not shown her enough love, eternal doubter as I am... But never ever did a girl better understand me; never ever did I feel more relaxed and myself with someone... Why this? I realized too late I really love her and need her... but she won't accept that... I'm the kind of person who never really lets someone love them, but I think she came further loving me than anyone ever has except for my mother when I was a child... I know, I sound like a total jurk, but that's what life's experiences do with someone after a while... I don't think I'll ever miss someone more than I'll miss her... On the other hand, I know in a way this would be good to be my own man and be independent in my decision-making for once, grow up, and sort myself and my many issues out... But she's like a little part of me... Without her I'm lost... (I know I know, you ladies will probably be eye-rolling)
Lol, sorry for the drama people... I'm just at loss, in shock, and really needed to vent (sorry for the wasted space mods).
The only thing that helps is time (to figure out how to be on your own again, to figure out who you are, to realize that you can love someone else someday). It's hard but you'll be okay.

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The only thing that helps is time (to figure out how to be on your own again, to figure out who you are, to realize that you can love someone else someday). It's hard but you'll be okay.
I don't want to forget her...
Don't want to even think about loving someone else...
All I want is her...
But at the same time I know I'll never be able to give her all the love she needs...
Then again, I feel like I'll never be able to give anyone the love they need... A fool in love. Screw me.
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While I'm really sorry for you and you really do sound like you're hurting, I wouldn't be surprised if a bunch of posters swooped in and tried to tell you that you should learn to love penis instead.

Just a heads up.
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im so sorry for you.

i think i know how you feel, i got dumped by my boyfriend last week and have been really upset ever since. today he updated all his dating profiles on the internet with new pictures and saying he is now single. i feel so sick even thinking about it. it has just re-opened all my wounds and i hate him for it. but obviously still love him.

i read a quote that is soo corny yesterday but it made sense to me "a person can break your heart and you'll still love them with every little piece".

time heals all wounds. just work on bettering yourself and becoming the person you want to be.

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I don't want to forget her...
Don't want to even think about loving someone else...
All I want is her...
But at the same time I know I'll never be able to give her all the love she needs...
Then again, I feel like I'll never be able to give anyone the love they need... A fool in love. Screw me.
I was exactly where you were not too long ago, not wanting to even think about loving someone else. And it takes a while to move past that, but you get there eventually. Go out and do fun things with your friends. Do something good for yourself, like go to the gym or buy a fierce new wardrobe Try to keep living your life. You're going to have to force it for a while, but soon, you won't have to force yourself to do things that make you happy. You'll just want to do them.

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While I'm really sorry for you and you really do sound like you're hurting, I wouldn't be surprised if a bunch of posters swooped in and tried to tell you that you should learn to love penis instead.

Just a heads up.
Well obvi that would be the best solution

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That's so sad, you're going to feel awful for a few days but you will bounce back soon enough.

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Thank you guys for all your sincerely kind replies. Really appreciate that.

But I don't think you really understand. This was really a love of my life. Truely. I'll never feel as whole again with someone. Ever. The cruel thing is that through all the emotion I objectively know this is 100% true... I'm gonna be having a hell of a time trying to get over my addiction of her...

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You'll get back together!
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You're not a total jurk.

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You should tell her all this stuff and make efforts to show her you're really sorry and are hurting and care a lot for her. Everyone makes mistakes and since you two seem to care a lot for each other, it shouldn't be too late to get back together

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Thank you guys for all your sincerely kind replies. Really appreciate that.

But I don't think you really understand. This was really a love of my life. Truely. I'll never feel as whole again with someone. Ever. The cruel thing is that through all the emotion I objectively know this is 100% true... I'm gonna be having a hell of a time trying to get over my addiction of her...
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love= shit
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You should tell her all this stuff and make efforts to show her you're really sorry and are hurting and care a lot for her. Everyone makes mistakes and since you two seem to care a lot for each other, it shouldn't be too late to get back together
I agree with this.

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love= shit
I agree with this also.

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