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post #1 of 25 (permalink) Old Oct 2nd, 2002, 02:04 PM Thread Starter
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Unhappy How do you get over someone

who doesn't feel the same about you?
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post #2 of 25 (permalink) Old Oct 2nd, 2002, 02:11 PM
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Oh Jen

I take it this means you?

I'm on MSN if you wanna chat

It's difficult. I know people say in time it gets better and that it doesn't help right now, but please give it time, it doe sget better

Talk to me!!!!!!!
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I'll talk to you on MSN now then

And it is about me
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Good (about talking)

I can't fix anything, but will listen for as long as you want/need.

Talking to you now, so upsetting
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post #5 of 25 (permalink) Old Oct 2nd, 2002, 02:31 PM
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it takes time. but you need to move on and realize that life is wasting away and is not meant to be a struggle. put all his or her crap (pics, neck ties or victoria secrets, secret blackmail video tapes, love letters, other underwear, stolen credit cards, microcassette containing voice mails) in a box and put the box in your closet and just look in it ONLY as a last resort. Then after a month or a year or whatever you can have a "im burning this BS party" or you can use it to wipe out your toilet.

thank me later

also if you are going to drive by this person's house (which is a bad idea) dont take a brick or eggs and at least wait until 3 or 4 in the morning so you are not seen.

and remember stalking is illegal and you can find someone else.
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Oh Jen

Thanks for talking to me, i'm really upset now

If i'm on MSN, talk to me anytime, always got time for someone who needs a friendly ear and a shoulder to cry on.

Take care of yourself, and will speak soon
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post #7 of 25 (permalink) Old Oct 2nd, 2002, 02:35 PM
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think about everything that is good and beautiful about you.... and then think about how stupid that person is for not seeing it...

'cause who wants to date a stupid person, right?

almost every time this happens to somebody, they end up meeting the guy/girl of their dreams, and then they are so thankful that they didn't waste their time on the person who wasn't right for them
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Poe is right. I once was truly brokenhearted when the guy I wanted so badly started dating another girl. It was happening before my eyes and I'd never seen it coming until it was too late. At the time I really thought it was the end of the world. But I got over it in time and like Poe says, I realized later on that he wasn't really my type of guy anyway, that we probably wouldn't have made a good couple.

You WILL get over it, just give it time. [hugs]

Everything you do continues long after you've gone
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Yep time will cure everything And you'll find somebody else..
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post #10 of 25 (permalink) Old Oct 2nd, 2002, 05:11 PM
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Sometimes time doesnt cure everything, but it does make things easier

Men när natten är ljus - I ditt sjuttiotalshus
Och du är ånga, spår av ett moln
I en dröm om att fly till någonting nytt

Och du håller så hårt och när längtan blir svår
Så är jag din, din, din att ta med
Att ta ut, att ta in i någonting nytt
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But time takes so long!

I've only got one tip: Making yourself believe you like someone else won't help. It will come back to you and hit you even harder.

What would you say if we could make
something amazing
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post #12 of 25 (permalink) Old Oct 2nd, 2002, 06:05 PM
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OH GOSH, if I had a bf and he dated a girl, *gasp*

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I suggest the 'dead body in the trunk of a car pushed into a lake' method.

works for me

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I burn down our favorite restaurant that we always went to....that works.
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