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Sex etiquette question.

So I'm in town visiting my friend as I usually do at least once a month. Recently she has acquired a boyfriend. Now she lives in basically a ghetto studio apartment. She has a bedroom, but there is no door separating it from the living room (where I am currently typing this from). All there is to separate it is a set of some cheap ass curtains that do NOTHING when it comes to concealing noises.

My question is: Do you think it's appropriate for them to have vocal sex while I'm sitting less than 30 feet away from their bed and can hear everything? If I were in her position, I could wait a couple of days. Or wait until I was off running an errand or something (even if she told me to leave for a few minutes). I think this is pretty gross, but maybe it's just me. I mean it's like they're so close I feel like I'M getting fucked (and her bf is NOT cute so that makes it even worse). What do y'all think?

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no no and no. gross. although, when i was in college, i had a roommate who thought nothing of banging his girlfriend while i was trying to sleep. 2 feet away. with no curtain separating us.
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I'm not sure appropriate comes into it - you're a guest in her house.

It's not ideal but, well, they're in the honeymoon period aren't they ?

Go back and visit in a year, there'll be stone cold silence behind the curtain.

Alternatively, stay somewhere else.
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I mean, exactly. It is her place. If I had the funds to stay elsewhere, TRUST ME, I would. I just wouldn't be comfortable exhibiting such behavior if the ball were in my court, so to say. I don't need to hear my friend saying, "John stay in me. John come in me. Oh, you like it like that?" And the moaning/grunting ad nauseum. I mean, it's possible to have relatively silent sex if you just GOTTA have it, considering there is a boy with virgin ears in the next room.

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I hope they are using some form of birth control if he is cumming in her.
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I don't think it matters. She has some kind of medical condition that has not allowed her to stay pregnant even when she does get knocked up. And OMG, I think they're at it again.

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put on headphones and listen to some music
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I mean, exactly. It is her place. If I had the funds to stay elsewhere, TRUST ME, I would. I just wouldn't be comfortable exhibiting such behavior if the ball were in my court, so to say. I don't need to hear my friend saying, "John stay in me. John come in me. Oh, you like it like that?" And the moaning/grunting ad nauseum. I mean, it's possible to have relatively silent sex if you just GOTTA have it, considering there is a boy with virgin ears in the next room.
That's all true. There's no doubt they could make more effort to hide it.

You have to question why they don't though.

None of the reasons I can think of are particularly nice.
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That's all true. There's no doubt they could make more effort to hide it.

You have to question why they don't though.

None of the reasons I can think of are particularly nice.
Are you suggesting they are telling him to take a hike by having loud sex?
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as is was younger, i slept i a youth-hostel with a school-mate
he hooked up a gilr, and had sex with her just 1 meter away from me
i act like sleeping , but it was kind of disgusting

so don´t go crazy wehn they are 10 meters away - LOL

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Straight people having sex is so disgusting, I would just make some kind of noise so they would know you could hear everything.

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Re: Sex etiquette question.

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So I'm in town visiting my friend as I usually do at least once a month. Recently she has acquired a boyfriend. Now she lives in basically a ghetto studio apartment. She has a bedroom, but there is no door separating it from the living room (where I am currently typing this from). All there is to separate it is a set of some cheap ass curtains that do NOTHING when it comes to concealing noises.

My question is: Do you think it's appropriate for them to have vocal sex while I'm sitting less than 30 feet away from their bed and can hear everything? If I were in her position, I could wait a couple of days. Or wait until I was off running an errand or something (even if she told me to leave for a few minutes). I think this is pretty gross, but maybe it's just me. I mean it's like they're so close I feel like I'M getting fucked (and her bf is NOT cute so that makes it even worse). What do y'all think?


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I mean, exactly. It is her place. If I had the funds to stay elsewhere, TRUST ME, I would. I just wouldn't be comfortable exhibiting such behavior if the ball were in my court, so to say. I don't need to hear my friend saying, "John stay in me. John come in me. Oh, you like it like that?" And the moaning/grunting ad nauseum. I mean, it's possible to have relatively silent sex if you just GOTTA have it, considering there is a boy with virgin ears in the next room.
So well written.

I've been in a similar situation. It was really traumatising for me actually because it was my brother in the room above. The thought of my brother having sex anyway makes me want to self harm, but imagine it happening in the room above, and it feel like the ceiling is about to break through at any time. :BARF:

But I think this is good advice:

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put on headphones and listen to some music
If you can't get out, then headphones are your friend.

Some people are just not as thoughtful, and I'd feel awkward asking them NOT to have sex because I was there. Feel like a party pooper So yeah, headphones. ^.^
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Agreed, they should freaking wait till your out! Annoying.
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It is abit gross...thankfully it has never happend to me. It was probably a little bit of thrill for them.....thats more than likely why they did it.

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