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mm I am a bisexual young man, a teenager. I discovered I was bi, well i actually knew but with this guy I just accepted it. For the first time I saw him I knew I liked him and sometimes, well most of the time, he was checking me out and giving me this looks like trying to show that he liked me, whatever, it's been two years now since that and he moved to another school and now Im a senior and he's in college but in all this time I keep seeing him everywhere and he stares at me, not in a bad way, and I can't help it I have to do the same but we haven't talk, I haven't even said Hi to him.

I feel he likes me and I know I love him so because of that I sent him a message on myspace telling him I need to talk to u and he wants to know what is it that I wanna tell him and I said " you know" and he said "no i don't, tell me" and then I replied: "It's complicated Im gonna tell you later" he then said " well explain it to me, tell me!" and I haven't replied back.

I haven't tell him what I feel because he's like into this rap shit, he has a group and it's somewhat big in the streets and I don't want to be like the liar, ****** if he denies what he feels for me, I can be the laugh of the town. Man I tell you he doesn't even try to hide it when he seems me. It's like he stops and all he sees it' me.

I don't know if I should tell him or not. Should I wait till I get out of high school, he has a lot of friends on my school, or should I just tell him right now the truth?

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have you ever talked to him at all? just want to know that cause you say you love him already, don't start getting ahead of yourself, it could lead to rash decisions maybe. as for your myspace messaging, honestly that's a toughy, if you feel safe telling him then go for it. if your 100% sure the looks he was giving you were flirtacious then go for it. maybe you should tell him just make him understand your point of view, i wouldnt just say do you like me or something. just take it slow, and xplain to him wht you think you've been feeling and if he likes you, honestly this is a tough one for you and i wish you luck.

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Yes it's difficult man I really don't know what to do. Im so sad

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Just get him to open up a bit more, if he feels comfortable around you and feels that he can trust you, he might drop some hints
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Send him porn pic see whats hes reaction
or ask him to take a poll in my space 'Love ones'
Hey does he talk to girls?
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I think leave it mate, if he likes you then he should get some balls and tell you. I mean if you tell him and he goes crazy it all could go so wrong with guys like that.

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This all sounds sooo familiar, for a moment...I wondered...anyways, it doesn't end well....I hope somehow you can fuind your own path....it really is something u need to work out for yourself. Best of Luck!

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Should I wait till I get out of high school, he has a lot of friends on my school, or should I just tell him right now the truth?
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