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post #1 of 15 (permalink) Old Jun 2nd, 2009, 09:45 PM Thread Starter
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Better to have loved and lost...

than to have never loved at all?

I dont think so

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post #2 of 15 (permalink) Old Jun 2nd, 2009, 09:54 PM
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Re: Better to have loved and lost...

Everyone goes through the emo stage when they have their heart broken. You'll be fine and you'll love again. Don't wallow in self pity too long or else you'll turn into a bitter hag.
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Re: Better to have loved and lost...

Whats wrong conor
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post #4 of 15 (permalink) Old Jun 2nd, 2009, 10:32 PM
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Awww...Conor, I'm so sorry. You'll be fine. Stay tough

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Re: Better to have loved and lost...

I am sorry to hear that. Hope everything is going okay...
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than to have never loved at all?

I dont think so

hopefully what u just think now is the end instead is just a short break

anyway, better have loved because it makes u feel alive
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Re: Better to have loved and lost...

Thanks guys. I'll survive. Its just very hard to accept atm.

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I know the feeling. It may not seem like it right now, but with everyday that passes, you'll feel better.

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post #9 of 15 (permalink) Old Jun 2nd, 2009, 11:59 PM
 
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Look at Susan Boyle and you have your answer.
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Re: Better to have loved and lost...

Do something great for yourself like lose 5 pounds or clean out your entire house.
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Do something great for yourself like lose 5 pounds or clean out your entire house.
....or gain 5 pounds drinking loads of booze and trash someone elses house!

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Re: Better to have loved and lost...

Neither is better than the other. It's just a condition in your life, and whichever is the case, you'll find something to take out of it eventually.

A single flow'r he sent me, since we met./All tenderly his messenger he chose;
Deep-hearted, pure, with scented dew still wet - One perfect rose.
I knew the language of the floweret;/'My fragile leaves,' it said, 'his heart enclose.'
Love long has taken for his amulet/One perfect rose.
Why is it no one ever sent me yet/One perfect limousine, do you suppose?
Ah no, it's always just my luck to get/One perfect rose.
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....or gain 5 pounds drinking loads of booze and trash someone elses house!
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You'll get through it sweetie


Where you end and I begin...
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Re: Better to have loved and lost...

its a battle we must face
and we do get stronger each time

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