did it ever occur to you that she might be having problems aswell??
shes human after all...
cant you put yourself into her position aswell
in her shoes, ask her how her day
was, ask her bout her errands and focus a single day on her
before you blab on bout your gf..
"she also keeps dropping hints that im fat now that shes
dropped an unhealthy amount of weight due to work stress even though im a normal size UK 12-14. "
she? or you?
"But ever since that initial coming out, my mum wont talk to me about the lesbian in me,i keep talking about my gf and i either get silence or she just changes the subject. "
Does your mom talk alot about her former bf to you? Come on, do you think that
youre being too hard on your mom talking bout your
gf all the time,
yes we know you love your gf,
yes we know you think shes perfect...
I have a friend who keeps talking bout
a crap game that i dont like, that he loves...
its annoying, i didnt tell him fully, i tried changing
the subjects till we both laugh, with me
ending the conversation "that game sucks"
"I dont feel like i can talk to them."
shes not interested "YET" in your gf, then change the topic
and talk with her something
without bringing your GF in.
and then in time
desensitize the conversation with a FEW bits from your gf
start a conversation in the morning
with a big smile on your face
and give them a big hug...
ask them how their sleep was..
tell them that you had a nightmare that you/they died
and you got really scared...
Clean the house,
Wash the Clothes,
and tell your mom that youre gf is gonna come for
dinner in a week
of course tell her the a few days after that