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What do you think about forcing a marraige d/t a pregnancy?

I'm curious about how people really feel about this subject. Would you pressure your 17 year old daughter into a loveless marraige because of a pregnancy?? I think it is wrong and it goes against the very christian beliefs. A marraige is supposed to be a holy union. A bond between a man and a women. Or if you're a democrat like me a man and a man or women and a women. I just think it is pathetic and wrong for parents to force young adult children into a fake marraige just because of a pregnancy. Why would you want to raise a child with 2 kids who just don't love each other and are unhappy.
Kids make mistakes and it's ok to raise a child out of wedlock. I've seen many children raised in great environments with one single parent. I've seen kids in horrible environments with 2 parents.
I would like to hear from the youth on this subject. I personally think it's ok to have sex before marraige. The key is prevention and education. The stay a virgin forever until your married is just another mysogistic way of controlling women. I feel bad for kids who are harrassed and pressured into a life of hell because of a mistake. Why turn 1 mistake into 2 mistakes.

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I would advise her to get an abortion. If she insists on keeping it then I failed as a parent. I wouldn't care what she does with the scum that fathered the child.

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Re: What do you think about forcing a marraige d/t a pregnancy?

I know personally a few girls who's get pregnant at teens. No one of them was forced to marriage. And the kids upbringed by them behave pretty well. Im sure they will be valuable people in the future, mostly thanks to hard situation they have as a kids...


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The key is prevention and education.
I am against education in that subject. In fact, I am against education in general...

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Re: What do you think about forcing a marraige d/t a pregnancy?

in my country(México) people is very old fashioned.....and if a teenager gets pregnant she has got to get married...those kind of marriages rarely work....and the couple is usually unhappy....and get divorced in two years (or less) time.

unless they are the ones who choose to get married its ok...but I haven´t met a couple that got married in a young age and they are still together.....I have friends from highschool that got pregnant and married but their marriage didn´t work

if I get pregnant I would have to get married ...my mom wouldn´t accept me having a baby without being married.....she´ll probably never speak to me again...really..my family is like that...well I think I overreacted by saying she wouldn´t speak to me....she´ll surely be very upset at me.......and the rest of my family wouldn´t accep it either......but I´m not a teenager anymore....neither adult I think.........well I´m 20...
anyway I´m a very responsible person and I don´t think I´ll get pregnant without being married so I don´t think I´ll ever be in one of those situations

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Re: What do you think about forcing a marraige d/t a pregnancy?

Most of pregnant girls actually want to get married if they will keep the baby ...


The best thing is no sex before marriage and no marriage before 18 ...
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Most of pregnant girls actually want to get married if they will keep the baby ...


The best thing is no sex before marriage and no marriage before 18 ...
No.The best thing is to kill ourselves in order to avoid any temptations and join God and his oh-so cute kingdom asap.

(at least it's what they tell me in the church.)
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Re: What do you think about forcing a marraige d/t a pregnancy?

Sweet Cleopatra that is not true. I disagree with your solution to a teen pregancy problem. The solution is teaching prevention from diseases and early pregnancy. Saying no sex before marraige is saying teens don't have raging hormones. Kids fuck. Bottomline. Alot of teens fuck. So the best thing is to address that they fuck and then teach them birth control.
Nurses and Doctors teach us all how to prevent lung cancer and many other conditions. Teaching and Education empowers us all.

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No. Education is not solution to all...

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I am a teen myself , I never did sex , and I have friends , may be boys want to have sex a lot , but nearly all girls don't find it a problem not to have sex , girls got pregnant not boys .. it is unfair to let girls have so much trouble and problems with pregnancy and child and problems to their family too when they are still children themselves ...
There is no 100% safe sex ...
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No. Education is not solution to all...
in this case it is

how would someone know how to prevent a pregnancy if they don´t have any sexual education

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in this case it is

how would someone know how to prevent a pregnancy if they don´t have any sexual education
I never had any sexual education and I know

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I never had any sexual education and I know
maybe from Tv or magazines..or by someone else teaching you..:that also counts as sexual education

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maybe from Tv or magazines..or by someone else teaching you..:that also counts as sexual education
Yes, but it didn't cost a single cent from budget...

And all sex ed programs suggested by doctrine wich is in USA called "liberal" and everywhee else "social democratic" assumpt huge drain of taxpayer's money...

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Yes, but it didn't cost a single cent from budget...

And all sex ed programs suggested by doctrine wich is in USA called "liberal" and everywhee else "social democratic" assumpt huge drain of taxpayer's money...

I wasn´t trying to say you paid for it anyway


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Re: What do you think about forcing a marraige d/t a pregnancy?

I also don't think anything good comes out of forcing young kids into a marraige. Now you'll have 2 unhappy people growing up way too fast with more children. It's a travesty.

Education is still the key. It empowers. More kids are having sex at a young age then ever before. So if there having sex teach them birth control and prevention of disease. Only good can come from it.
Teenagers A were taught about condoms and safe sex. They are disease free and no pregnancys.
Teenagers b were taught no sex no sex before marraige and no condom buying, they have sex anyway but end up preganant and or with a disease.
I prefer teenager A solution to preventing the epidemic. This is what I will teach my children boy and girls.

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