I need advice on a girl - TennisForum.com

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
post #1 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 19th, 2007, 09:36 PM Thread Starter
Senior Member
 
IceHock's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: cali
Posts: 9,616
                     
I need advice on a girl

k the other night, and me and this girl have fought many times before but we always end up talking again, but we were just talking casually and i said i was thirsty and she said she was too and that she needed a drink for her drugs, and i asked why are you on drugs and she said because of heartburn and depression, so of course i asked why she was depressed then she says why do you care all of a sudden, and i was like woahhhhhhh, cause it was just of nowhere, honestly was not expecting it so the next day we both talk some of the same people and a girl im good friends with tells me she called me a fucking douchebag and she hates my guts, so i asked her on aim while she was away and told her to grow up and stop acting like shes 5 and to stop talking shit behind my back, so i look at her away about an hour later and it says hanging with my NON DOUCHEBAG friends, which pissed me off royally. so today shes blocked me on aim and deleted me from myspace. do you guys think shes being a little immature? i honestly have no idea what i did.
IceHock is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
post #2 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 19th, 2007, 10:30 PM
Senior Member
 
Vamos.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 5,416
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

wait, are you male or female?

I know just--just what you are--ah-ah.


I like the way that you taste, when you're all up in my face.


Vamos. is offline  
post #3 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 19th, 2007, 10:35 PM Thread Starter
Senior Member
 
IceHock's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: cali
Posts: 9,616
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

lol male, and i left out that im best friends with her brother and now he isnt talking to me basicly
IceHock is offline  
post #4 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 19th, 2007, 11:07 PM
Senior Member
 
drake3781's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Posts: 15,915
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

Well it's jsut weird but it will all blow over, so don't worry too much about it; just do something else with that time/energy for a bit, and watch out for the time when it can be solved without a lot of drama.

But you should know - just for general information - that when people are taking drugs for depression, it's not because they are depressed "about" something. It is a medical condiiton.
drake3781 is offline  
post #5 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 19th, 2007, 11:11 PM
Senior Member
 
Sally Struthers's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: UnattractiveOn the inside
Posts: 10,981
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

You're better off without her. However, it sounds like you missed some signals (or got some mixed ... or maybe it's just that time of the month ) from her earlier and were not meeting her needs in one way or another.
Sally Struthers is offline  
post #6 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 19th, 2007, 11:21 PM
 
Join Date: Nov 2001
Posts: 27,279
 
Re: I need advice on a girl

Quote:
Originally Posted by dAnFan View Post
i honestly have no idea what i did.
Welcome to the club mate.

You'll find this won't be the only time in life you're in this situation.

My advice, carry on with your life as if nothing has happened and wait - whether you go searching for the drama or not, it'll come after you regardless sooner or later.

Then you'll know what you did, whether you actually did it or not.

Might as well enjoy your weekend in the mean time.
Kart is offline  
post #7 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 12:01 AM
Senior Member
 
lympyisthebest's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Sydney
Posts: 10,565
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

How old are you both? She's obviously very immature so i wouldn't worry about it. You don't have to be friends with everyone and not everyone has to like you. As for the brother, it'll blow over if he's your best friend.
lympyisthebest is offline  
post #8 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 12:07 AM
Senior Member
 
Dawn Marie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: North by Northwest
Posts: 15,252
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

U will kiss a few froggesses before you find your princess. Just have fun. It's not you it's her. Just chill out and keep yourself occupied. Your best friend will come around. So will the girl on meds.

Only after the last tree has been cut down
Only after the last river has been poisoned
Only after the last fish has been caught
Only then will you find that money cannot be eaten. "Cree Native American Prophecy"
Dawn Marie is offline  
post #9 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 12:20 AM Thread Starter
Senior Member
 
IceHock's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: cali
Posts: 9,616
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

yeah me and my best friend are good now i think, im 18 and the girl is 19.
IceHock is offline  
post #10 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 01:06 AM
Senior Member
 
No Name Face's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: nYc
Posts: 12,821
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

asking for girl advice is an oxymoron.
most girls are insane. if they don't seem it, they're good actresses.

i get myself into the situation you mentioned about once a month with my girlfriend (that i don't want anymore). you should be lucky you didn't bang her (did you?) --- now THAT brings problems.

ROCK ON:
elena dementieva, serena williams, caroline wozniacki, ana ivanovic
david nalbandian, rafael nadal, andy murray, gael monfils, jo-wilfried tsonga
No Name Face is offline  
post #11 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 01:10 AM Thread Starter
Senior Member
 
IceHock's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: cali
Posts: 9,616
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

lol no i didnt bang her, she's too psychotic in my mind, and is the clingy type.
IceHock is offline  
post #12 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 01:16 AM
Senior Member
 
drake3781's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Posts: 15,915
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

OK I reread your post and I think I've nailed it:


"....then she says why do you care all of a sudden..."


This means that there was a time when she wanted you to care about something personal about her, but you didn't (maybe you didn't know or understand, or else you were being selfish, or being a clueless guy).

Anyhoo, since you kinda failed that last time or a few times when she wanted your attention before, she was hurt about that. Then when you suddenly cared about this pill thing, out of the blue, in the middle of a casual conversation, she used that to backlash at you for not caring about the other thing(s).

But she couldn't tell you the real reason, because she felt like when you ignored her personal thing before it was like you didn't care very much about her, and if you feel that way, why would she let you know that it hurt her? (That's how a girl feels.... )
drake3781 is offline  
post #13 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 01:17 AM
Senior Member
 
No Name Face's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: nYc
Posts: 12,821
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

Quote:
Originally Posted by dAnFan View Post
lol no i didnt bang her, she's too psychotic in my mind, and is the clingy type.
yeah..no matter how hot she is, STAY AWAY.
good luck. no one can translate "crazy girl" so just be yourself and/or ignore her. she'll come back.

ROCK ON:
elena dementieva, serena williams, caroline wozniacki, ana ivanovic
david nalbandian, rafael nadal, andy murray, gael monfils, jo-wilfried tsonga
No Name Face is offline  
post #14 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 01:18 AM Thread Starter
Senior Member
 
IceHock's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: cali
Posts: 9,616
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

lol k thanks drake, i think i understand most of that
IceHock is offline  
post #15 of 29 (permalink) Old Oct 20th, 2007, 09:08 AM
Somewhere over the rainbow.
 
Yasmine's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Paris
Posts: 45,698
                     
Re: I need advice on a girl

I cannot believe I am actually gonna agree with Kart on a girl/guy matter
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kart View Post
Welcome to the club mate.

You'll find this won't be the only time in life you're in this situation.

My advice, carry on with your life as if nothing has happened and wait - whether you go searching for the drama or not, it'll come after you regardless sooner or later.

Then you'll know what you did, whether you actually did it or not.

Might as well enjoy your weekend in the mean time.
But basically yes try not to let it get to your head too much

Laissez nous créer, une arme en amour, une bombe à lumière, un fusil à fleur, une vie sans barrière.
Laissez nous rêver, d’un enfant président, d’un roi sans couronne, d’un Jésus indien, d’un Dieu qui pardonne, même ceux qui l’oublient.

Liberté ― Angélique Ionatos
Yasmine is offline  
Reply

Quick Reply
Message:
Options

Register Now



In order to be able to post messages on the TennisForum.com forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.

User Name:
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.

Password:


Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.

Email Address:
OR

Log-in









Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page



Posting Rules  
You may not post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

 
For the best viewing experience please update your browser to Google Chrome