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This guy is the distant cousin of my distant cousin. Poor guy still has nitemares, they really did a job on him.

Man Says He Feared for His Life When 7 N.J. Lesbians Attacked Him


NEW YORK (AP) -- A man who was beaten and stabbed after a street fight with seven avowed lesbians testified Wednesday that he thought he was going to die after they jumped him last year.

"I remember being surrounded, my hands up in my face,'' Dwayne Buckle testified at the trial of four of the women. "I went up into a defensive position. I felt a nick in my abdomen. I had my two hands in front of my face.''

He said he didn't realize he had been stabbed.

"Somebody told me I was stabbed,'' he said. "As soon as he said that, I felt it. I lay down on my knapsack. I was hollering and screaming. I felt like I was going to die.''

Buckle, 29, said he was in a hospital for five days and in bed at his Queens home for a month after undergoing surgery for a lacerated liver and stomach. He said he also suffered cuts, bruises, scratches and an eye injury in the attack.

Buckle, who has called the incident "a hate crime against a straight man,'' was testifying in Manhattan's state Supreme Court at the trial of Patreese Johnson, 20, Renata Hill, 25, Venice Brown, 19, and Terrain Dandridge, 20, all of Newark, N.J.

The defendants are charged with first- and second-degree assault and gang assault. Johnson, accused of stabbing Buckle, also is charged with second-degree attempted murder. All have pleaded not guilty.

Three of the seven women pleaded guilty to assault charges in exchange for sentences of six months in jail and five years probation.

Buckle, a movie audio-video engineer and an independent filmmaker, said the fight started outside the Independent Film Center in lower Manhattan, where he was trying to sell videos he had made. He said that as the women walked by, he spoke to one of them because he found her attractive.

Buckle said a heavyset woman in the group said something rude.

"She just started dogging me out, being loud and disrespectful,'' he said. "I think I called her an elephant and told her I wasn't talking to her.''

Buckle said she spoke disparagingly of his looks and clothing, saying he was wearing cheap sneakers. Meanwhile, another woman spat on him and he spat back.

The women surrounded and attacked Buckle, he said. After a few minutes, he said, the fight subsided and he began picking up his DVDs from the sidewalk.

"Someone attacked me from behind,'' Buckle said. "One girl called for some guys to come beat me up. A guy got me on the floor (sidewalk), and I was jumped again.''

Assistant District Attorney Sharon Laveson told the jury in opening statements that surveillance video will show that Johnson pulled a steak knife from her purse and stabbed Buckle with it.

Johnson admits she slashed Buckle with a knife but says she did it in self-defense, according to papers filed by prosecutors at her arraignment. Johnson's statement says she pulled out her knife after Buckle grabbed her arm and spat on one of her friends.

"As I got my knife, Renata hit him for spitting,'' Johnson's statement says. "Then everyone jumped in because he is a man. Then some young men had helped us. After that we walked away. I admit I did cut him one time for my own safety.''

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Re: Mean Lesbians Attacked my cousin!

OK. So basically the man made a cat call.

One of the women didn't agree with that and had some words.

He comes back with words of his own.

He gets spit on and he spits back.

I was fine until he spat back.
If a women spits on a man then they probably deserve it.

If a man spits on a women, he deserves to get his ass kicked.

And that's what happened.

But what an ego.
If he had any common sense he should have got the message after the women had her words with him.

There are some women who get offended by comments and don't stand up for themselves in that situation.
It seems like big girl felt the other lack of comfort and spoke up for her.

And the nerve to call this a hate crime against a straight man.

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and how do we know this actually is your cousin
and not some story you found on the internet?

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If a women spits on a man then they deserve it.

If a man spits on a women, he deserves to get his ass kicked.
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and how do we know this actually is your cousin
and not some story you found on the internet?
I see what you mean. What is the difference anyway, the guy got beaten up for no reason, by mean people.
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I see what you mean. What is the difference anyway, the guy got beaten up for no reason, by mean people.
the difference is that you're trying to get some sympathy from ppl by telling that he is your cousin...

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the difference is that you're trying to get some sympathy from ppl by telling that he is your cousin...
I think you've been reading too much psychology books. I didnt say i want sympathy, I already know there are mean people in the world. I'm only saying that some mean people hurt my distant cousin. Do you think it's good that he got hurt, or do you think it was mean too?
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I think you've been reading too much psychology books. I didnt say i want sympathy, I already know there are mean people in the world. I'm only saying that some mean people hurt my distant cousin. Do you think it's good that he got hurt, or do you think it was mean too?
now you're saying things that I never said!

you don't say you want sympathy,
but by posting that he is a cousin of your cousin you want ppl to feel sorry for you, just like you always do

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now you're saying things that I never said!

you don't say you want sympathy,
but by posting that he is a cousin of your cousin you want ppl to feel sorry for you, just like you always do
Not really. Sure i like to joke around in my own way, but that is not the issue. What if I just know who the person is? or what if he just was a neighbour of a friend, or if he just lived in the same community as me or even I knew one of the guilty women. New York City is not as large as you may think ya know?
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Not really. Sure i like to joke around in my own way, but that is not the issue. What if I just know who the person is? or what if he just was a neighbour of a friend, or if he just lived in the same community as me or even I knew one of the guilty women. New York City is not as large as you may think ya know?
don't pretend as if I'm stupid
you know what I'm talking about
but ignore it

first your friend is in jail
now your cousin gets beaten up

I just don't believe it
NY might be small
but you don't know everybody in the paper/internet

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Please, there's more ppl living in NY, than there's ppl in Belgium, or Holland.
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don't pretend as if I'm stupid
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I'm beginning to think you are not like other people.

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now your cousin gets beaten up
no you missed it. First my friend and brother got jumped in the metro, and my friend had his jaw broken by a guy who hit him from behind while probably holding a piece of metal in his hand. knocked him out cold. a couple of days later my wife got grabbed from behind and the same guy revealed his genitals to her.

Then a few weeks ago my friend José, a Colombian immigrant attacked his brother in law with a box cutter, severely injuring him and sending him to the hospital. His parents who also live here are trying to get him out but he'll serve at least 6 months in jail first.

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I just don't believe it
NY might be small
but you don't know everybody in the paper/internet
no shit sherlock.

why is this so strange to you? My cousin (also in NY) had her car broken into and her stuff stolen, a coworker of mine got attacked by someone (a friend i think) a couple of months ago, and another coworker had her purse stolen from her hands. I could go on and on.
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I think calling a fat lesbian with a knife "an elephant" was possibly not this guy's cleverest moment

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They sound like psycho bitches but he sounds like he was asking for trouble.
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