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Who actually uses the term "to make love?" It's "to have sex" Goddamnit

I don't like to make threads about sex. Sex threads are too "I'm an 18-year-old virgin" for me. But this is about sex jargon, not the physical experience! Anyway this has been really bugging me, for the longest time and I want public opinion on this important matter.

I have never in my life said, "we made love last nite" or "let's make love." Do people actually say that? I know people like to THINK the term "making love" is reserved for relationships where people are truly, deeply, madly in adoration of one another. And no, I have never had a relationship like that, but I had a mature relationship. Those words were only spoken once and it felt so insincere. Do people think they're supposed to say that because they see it in the movies, or it's romantic or because it's politically correct to say in a non-casual setting?

Furthermore, I recently read a tell-all interview with Britney Spears' ex-boyfriend of a month, Isaac Cohen, and he said many times over how they "made love." I am sure they were not in love, and he himself made it very clear it was very much a rebound relationship saying Britney was not over Kevin and kept her wedding dress framed on the wall and that every second he had to reassure her she wasn't fat. So why would he use that term for such a short-term relationship that was obviously a rebound for Britney Spears?

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Re: Who actually uses the term "to make love?" It's "to have sex" Goddamnit

This thread is so 18 year old Virgin!
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Re: Who actually uses the term "to make love?" It's "to have sex" Goddamnit

i hate when people say that to I'm a 17 year and I've had sex before and at no point did i say lets make love!!!!!! I say i'm gonna wear you the fuck out tonight girl or You in trouble tonight. Or I'm so fucking horny or I dont say anything and it just happens
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Cause it was a magasine and having sex was too brutal I guess.

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This thread is so 18 year old Virgin!

Anna rocks, your avatar rocks, but your comment doesn't! This thread is not an "18-year-old virgin" moment! Hmph

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i hate when people say that to I'm a 17 year and I've had sex before and at no point did i say lets make love!!!!!! I say i'm gonna wear you the fuck out tonight girl or You in trouble tonight. Or I'm so fucking horny or I dont say anything and it just happens
lol. This is very realistic. I think the media promotes an ideal version of sex talk and the public foolishly thinks they have to adhere to it! I mean, who the hell says that!

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Re: Who actually uses the term "to make love?" It's "to have sex" Goddamnit

Making love and having sex are two completely different things.

Isaac Cohen and Britney Spears, lolz. It was rebound sex. He's just a dumbass if he actually thought they made love.

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Anna rocks, your avatar rocks, but your comment doesn't! This thread is not an "18-year-old virgin" moment! Hmph
Thanks, and I was only joking it's just because you said about sex threads usually being made by 18 year old virgins
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Making love and having sex are two completely different things.
Really? Elaborate.

Because I just feel like one term exists and the other is nothing more than romantic jargon that people don't actually say--they think they're supposed to say it someday, but it sounds ridiculous and dramatic when it is actually said

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Thanks, and I was only joking it's just because you said about sex threads usually being made by 18 year old virgins
I was joking too... but i am bad at getting my jokes out clear, haha

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Re: Who actually uses the term "to make love?" It's "to have sex" Goddamnit

Just because you have never "made love" doesn't mean other people haven't. I believe there is a very big difference in making love and having sex. I have had plenty of sex but I am not sure I have ever truly made love. I know one day I will or atleast I hope I will. I don't have to have experienced it to know it exists.
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Ideally we would have sex and then she can make love to herself for a couple of hours while I go downstairs to make some food / phone calls / online purchases.
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I say i'm gonna wear you the fuck out tonight girl or You in trouble tonight. Or I'm so fucking horny or I dont say anything and it just happens
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Just because you have never "made love" doesn't mean other people haven't. I believe there is a very big difference in making love and having sex. I have had plenty of sex but I am not sure I have ever truly made love. I know one day I will or atleast I hope I will. I don't have to have experienced it to know it exists.
I think you're missing the point. I am not talking about the ACT of sex vs. the "alleged" ACT of making love! I am talking about sex jargon... the way people talk about sex. I want to know if people use the verb "to make love" as opposed to the verb "to have sex" in conversation. Capisce?

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