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post #1 of 54 (permalink) Old Feb 7th, 2007, 10:12 AM Thread Starter
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Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

Quite a few people believe in love at first site, or attraction at first site anyway - but the problem is what if your a guy, and their a guy, your gay and their not?
Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy? Yes or No

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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

What do you mean is "okay"? You can't really stop yourself if the attraction is there...

I guess it's OK in the sense there is nothing morally wrong with it, just that you shouldn't expect anything to eventuate from it I guess..... unless they are willing to er.... experiment, and even then, that's as far as it goes.... IF it gets anywhere.

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Sure, but don't expect anything to happen.

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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

It's okay, it's just pointless.
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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

its not a case of it being ok or not, you cant help who you fall in love with
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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

I voted no in the poll, in my 'straighter' days I was hit on but I didn't tell anyone because it thankfully didn't go very far, although he was rather sweet now that I think about it

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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

I don't see why it's any different from falling for anyone else that you have no chance with.

It's not like these things are always under our control.
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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

its no different to falling for a gay guy that doesn't have the same feelings

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Don't give up KK !
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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

Sure it's OK. What it's not is sensible or healthy.
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Re: Is it ever okay to fall for a straight guy if your a guy

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I voted no in the poll, in my 'straighter' days I was hit on but I didn't tell anyone because it thankfully didn't go very far, although he was rather sweet now that I think about it
Would you like to explain why you voted no?

Like others said, it is ok to fall in love with someone, even though it can not lead to anything.
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i said no. if he is straight, it's probably best for everyone that you keep you feelings to yourself.
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i said no. if he is straight, it's probably best for everyone that you keep you feelings to yourself.
But that is not the question. The question if it's ok to fall in love with a straight guy. Whatever happens next is a different matter altogether.
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i said no. if he is straight, it's probably best for everyone that you keep you feelings to yourself.
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but it is flattering, somewhat.

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