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Uncomfortable situation with my roommate pleaseadvise:Edited for easier understanding

OK, well first of all this is much different than writing for an assignment. I was upset and felt I needed to get my emotions out. Here is the explanation for easier understanding(hopefully)

I have a roommate who had sex with a girl who wasn't his girlfriend last week in our room at 4:00 AM in the morning.

Yesterday a group of friends, including my roommate who isn't my friend decided to go out to a club to celebrate the end of finals week.

After we left the club, some of the group(myself included)returned to the dorm because we were tired. My roommate returned to the room at 4:00 AM in the morning and called a friend of his and said guess what happened? the following is what happened according to the phone call he had.

My Roommate made a pass at one of the girls in our group in the parking lot of the club and she said to him "no, I am not going to bed with you becasue you're a nasty guy" my roommate said "what do you mean?" and she said I know you take girls to your room, "I don't like that and besides I have a boyfriend." He then asked her " how do you know that?"and she said "well who lives with you?" ( that would be me)

So he was telling his friend I was a little bitch for telling her what he did and that I wasn't a real man because real men don't tell on other men.

Now, I did not tell the girl he made a pass at that he fucks all these girls in our room. I simply mentioned I had been kept up that particular night because of their conversations. I also mentioned when I woke up there was a strong femenine odor in the room not to mention the chick was still in his bed. This became an issue because I was of course, awake all night and later that morning this girl and I had breakfast and of course, my eyes were blood shot and i just looked like crap.

He continued saying I had no right to tell anyone about what he did in our room. I argue that if he just does something out of his will and disrespects me I can. It is not like I was saying it in a gossipy way.He said guys don't tell what other guys do especially to girls. I believe if someone is my friend they are my friend because I can talk to them about anything no matter if they are a girl or guy.

I am also upset that he was talking so badly about me because other people have told me stuff about him and things he's done to girls and illegalish things he does which I believe he doesn't know other people are speaking so freely about throughout the campus.

Now, my roomate is in a fraternity and what upset me the most was that he told his friend. yeah, you know we're better men, we're gentlemen we would never do that to a friend he, (me) is just a little bitch.

Now, all I am thinking is like a gentlemen doesn't treat women the way you do, a gentlemen doesn't have a girlfriend, and a girl on the side and brings them to the room on alternationg nights aside from bringing ex-girlfriends. If I really wanted to be a little bitch couldn't I just tell his real girlfriend waht he's doing? I mean if this girl wanted to tell him off for trying to take her home I applaud her however, now I am just in an awkward,hostile stiuation.

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I have no idea what you just said.

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I have no idea what you just said.
I got lost after a while too, is there a summary to this?
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Call Judy Buenoano and she can give him some "vitamins."

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You gotta break this out or give us a summary. For general advice I say that you gotta tell him this crap bothers you.

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I think his roommate fucked a girl, and he didn't get any sleep. Then he was talking to another girl who asked why he looked horrid and he said it was because his roommate was fucking said girl. Then the other girl was talking to the roommate on the phone and told him about her knowing he fucked the girl. And his roommate thinks it's him who told on him, which he actually kind of did but not purposely. So now he's thinking if he should confront the roommate. I think.
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I think his roommate fucked a girl, and he didn't get any sleep. Then he was talking to another girl who asked why he looked horrid and he said it was because his roommate was fucking said girl. Then the other girl was talking to the roommate on the phone and told him about her knowing he fucked the girl. And his roommate thinks it's him who told on him, which he actually kind of did but not purposely. So now he's thinking if he should confront the roommate. I think.
I got mostly the same, when trying to read it, but still find it very confusing.
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Tell your (FRIEND) that (THIS SPECIFIC GIRLS NAME) is a (INSERT VULGAR INSULT) and a (INSERT ANOTHER INSULT) and that your (FRIEND) should talk to your (ROOMATES NAME).

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I understand the whole point of it. I guess it was the way it was written or something I am missing. I just know a girl got fucked and his roomie is pissed at him.
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Well, I got lost very quickly, but then regrouped

But, honestly, it all sounds so shallow and unimportant If that's the biggest of your problems, I am happy for you

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Ask him how he would feel if he knew that 20 or thirty years ago, his mother was used for a nut like he is using these girls.

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The roommate is right, though, guys don't tattle on other guys getting laid, even if you're not friends. Live and learn, hon, what's done is done.

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yeah I got lost, but then I got it at the end.

You might as well talk to him. I mean if you're gonna be living in the same room for the rest of the year.

I would say that you should have a go at the girl about telling the guy about what you said. But she'll most likey tell ur roomate.

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see you are nice, i would have turned on the lights and called all my friends over been like "you want to see something really nasty"

or i would have told him flat out, find somewhere else or i will tape it and put it on youtube, its up to you. just tell him if that happens again what you will do.

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You can't really be angry with him for bitching about you seeing that you did tell other people who he was sleeping with.

If he's not your friend, why do you care what he says about you ?
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