Uncomfortable situation with my roommate pleaseadvise:Edited for easier understanding
OK, well first of all this is much different than writing for an assignment. I was upset and felt I needed to get my emotions out. Here is the explanation for easier understanding(hopefully)
I have a roommate who had sex with a girl who wasn't his girlfriend last week in our room at 4:00 AM in the morning.
Yesterday a group of friends, including my roommate who isn't my friend decided to go out to a club to celebrate the end of finals week.
After we left the club, some of the group(myself included)returned to the dorm because we were tired. My roommate returned to the room at 4:00 AM in the morning and called a friend of his and said guess what happened? the following is what happened according to the phone call he had.
My Roommate made a pass at one of the girls in our group in the parking lot of the club and she said to him "no, I am not going to bed with you becasue you're a nasty guy" my roommate said "what do you mean?" and she said I know you take girls to your room, "I don't like that and besides I have a boyfriend." He then asked her " how do you know that?"and she said "well who lives with you?" ( that would be me)
So he was telling his friend I was a little bitch for telling her what he did and that I wasn't a real man because real men don't tell on other men.
Now, I did not tell the girl he made a pass at that he fucks all these girls in our room. I simply mentioned I had been kept up that particular night because of their conversations. I also mentioned when I woke up there was a strong femenine odor in the room not to mention the chick was still in his bed. This became an issue because I was of course, awake all night and later that morning this girl and I had breakfast and of course, my eyes were blood shot and i just looked like crap.
He continued saying I had no right to tell anyone about what he did in our room. I argue that if he just does something out of his will and disrespects me I can. It is not like I was saying it in a gossipy way.He said guys don't tell what other guys do especially to girls. I believe if someone is my friend they are my friend because I can talk to them about anything no matter if they are a girl or guy.
I am also upset that he was talking so badly about me because other people have told me stuff about him and things he's done to girls and illegalish things he does which I believe he doesn't know other people are speaking so freely about throughout the campus.
Now, my roomate is in a fraternity and what upset me the most was that he told his friend. yeah, you know we're better men, we're gentlemen we would never do that to a friend he, (me) is just a little bitch.
Now, all I am thinking is like a gentlemen doesn't treat women the way you do, a gentlemen doesn't have a girlfriend, and a girl on the side and brings them to the room on alternationg nights aside from bringing ex-girlfriends. If I really wanted to be a little bitch couldn't I just tell his real girlfriend waht he's doing? I mean if this girl wanted to tell him off for trying to take her home I applaud her however, now I am just in an awkward,hostile stiuation.
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Last edited by selesfan1; Dec 15th, 2006 at 10:54 PM.