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what would you do, if ur bf/gf would have cheated on you?

keep it or dump it?

i mean, if it makes u crazy now, that u don't know where he/she is and u'Re having crazy thoughts that he/she could cheat on you again, so that it makes u sick, u cannot sleep...

i mean this isn't healthy, isn't it?

what would you do?

my heart says i should stay, but my mind says that i better go

i really don't know. it makes me sick and i m aware of that i won't trust anyone again that i will always have these fears and that it will always destroy myself and then my relation...
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Dump the asshole. You deserve better!
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Let them go... love is trust.
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Most people who have cheated will become chronic cheaters or will become not saying everybody who has cheated but most develop a history. So I say leave the ass.
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If some one has so little respect for you that they cheat on you, leave'em!
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Love fluctuates between two sides, if theyre cheating on you thats a complete betrayal of your trust and there's nothing more embarrasing than that. Talking from experience, Leave them, it wont be easy and it might still affect you in later relationships but its the best thing you could ever do

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my head will tell me to go, my heart will beg me to stay
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i dont see an option for man slaughter

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If you really love them, you should give them another chance.
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keep it or dump it?

i mean, if it makes u crazy now, that u don't know where he/she is and u'Re having crazy thoughts that he/she could cheat on you again, so that it makes u sick, u cannot sleep...

i mean this isn't healthy, isn't it?

what would you do?

my heart says i should stay, but my mind says that i better go

i really don't know. it makes me sick and i m aware of that i won't trust anyone again that i will always have these fears and that it will always destroy myself and then my relation...
seriously. cheating is a devaluation of themselves and you. a cheater is more than just a cheater, they are also liars. also if they had sex with you AFTER having sex with this other person it means that they put your life in danger without giving you a choice.

part of the reason people have such a big problem with cheating is all the other things they chose to do in order to achieve the act of cheating on you. dont be fooled, the made MANY choice to get to point. at any one of those many points they had the option of considering you as a top priority and they chose otherwise.

they had other choices, whether they considered all of the other choices or not is non-issue there were other things they could have done (come to you first, chosen not to cheat just to name a few) you need to think about where and who you are. you need to decide if you are worth better than that. if you are you leave. if you think otherwise you can say and try to "work it out" but do so with the acknowledgment of what you are saying about the value yourself and your well being.

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she hurts you once shame on her she hurts you tiwce shame on you

leave the hoe and move on
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1 strike you're out in my book

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Can you say, "perfect excuse for a threesome".
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1 strike you're out in my book

"racism is dead, it died when MLK walked on a bridge and freed the slaves. Now we have a socialist Kenyan president who is not an American and if anyone mentions race they are a reverse racist (while racism is dead, reverse racism is alive and well.) #whattheyteachyouatfox"
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