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Am I In Love? HELP!

Theres this one girl i really care about, i hang around with her quite a lot and we always hint that we think each other are good looking. During the time it seems both of us have been afraid to make a move and so amount of time hanging around with her makes me feel like im just friends with her and i would hate to ruin the friendship. I mean i really care about her and think about her all the time, she means the world to me, but im scared how she feels about me and what could happen if i go all out and drop it. When she goes out i am always worried she will be with someone else, and any other women i see i always compare her with this girl. I go out of my way to do anything for her i break arrangements everything. I have never felt like this before about another girl and im always thinking about her. You know you feel like it coudl be the end of the world if you never get with her and youd feel like everything is over, but when i try to think no that wont be a problem it would be fine, i just completly dont agree with myself and go back to square one. Am i really in Love? What should i do?

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sounds like it
you dont wanna not do anything and then regret it. after all, if you dont make a move she might think ur not interested in her in that way and she might find someone else.
it is hard weighing up all the what ifs but at the end of the day if you really wanna be with her then you hafta go for it bcos noone else is gonna do it for you
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Just got for it mate, ask her out, you will regret it if you don't further down the track.

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Thanks Alot. Yeah i really need to get the courage to do it, ive always been fine in the past but this is different you know, the one i really like the one i really care about.

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Thanks Alot. Yeah i really need to get the courage to do it, ive always been fine in the past but this is different you know, the one i really like the one i really care about.
Yeah its tough I know but you have to grab your chance if you really love her or she'll always be the one that slipped away. Don't pre plan what you want to say or you will screw up, just go in naturally.

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Yeah its tough I know but you have to grab your chance if you really love her or she'll always be the one that slipped away. Don't pre plan what you want to say or you will screw up, just go in naturally.
Thanks, id be really nervous this time i think too much in the past ive been wild but shes really brought out my sensitive side. Damm people say love is the greatest feeling ive been through so many ups and downs its hard to decide what it is there is one way of describing it....Love is like a rollercoaster of a ride you can go up and down, feel amazing, feel sick, feel terrified, feel nervous and feel on top of the world and at the end of the ride you can either feel awful or feel youve just had the greatest ride in your life.

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Thanks, id be really nervous this time i think too much in the past ive been wild but shes really brought out my sensitive side. Damm people say love is the greatest feeling ive been through so many ups and downs its hard to decide what it is there is one way of describing it....A rollercoaster of a ride you can go up and down, feel amazing, feel sick, feel terrified, feel nervous and feel on top of the world and at the end of the ride you can either feel great or feel awful.
Yeah being in love is awful, I hate it totally, I hope I never fall in love again in my life, once its got you in its claws it stays clenched until every drop of happiness is squeezed from you like a dried out raisin that is blow torched until it disintergrates!

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Yeah being in love is awful, I hate it totally, I hope I never fall in love again in my life, once its got you in its claws it stays clenched until every drop of happiness is squeezed from you like a dried out raisin that is blow torched until it disintergrates!
Sounds like youve had a hard time with it, hopefully this could turn out better.

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I know how you feel. It happened to me and I left without telling her...don't make the same mistake as I did. Things haven't been as good since, I've not met anyone better than her...

Go and do it. You won't regret it!

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I know how you feel. It happened to me and I left without telling her...don't make the same mistake as I did.

Go and do it. You won't regret it!
Im sorry to hear that

I think the 2 experiences in here similar, have made me get my arse in gear and think about the situation that little bit more, just have to wait till she gets back from holiday now!

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Fortune favours the brave.

Restraining orders favour the stalked.

Hope that's of some use to you .
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Fortune favours the brave.

Restraining orders favour the stalked.

Hope that's of some use to you .
Thanks
The first part but second part confuses me a little, in case you didnt know im actually friends with the girl i dont not know her and like her from a distance

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^ Stick with the first part, hopefully the second part won't be relevant.

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^ Stick with the first part, hopefully the second part won't be relevant.

Good luck .
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There is a saying which is so true: Love hurts

But, I can't live without it unfortunately

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