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I need some ADVICE [Update: I FINALLY did it! Except now I have more questions]

Okay so I've been going "out" with this girl for about 2 months now but we haven't made out and obviously that's just awkward. Anyway we were talking about and have decided to restart on Monday.
Anywho, I know she's expecting a kiss. But I know nothing about anything to doing that. Could someone PLEASE help me?

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Are your sure you REALLY like her?
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Are your sure you REALLY like her?
Yeah...but like I just get so nervous and I don't know what to do!
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Yeah...but like I just get so nervous and I don't know what to do!
How cute! I don't know how to help you get rid of your nerves though I could say to go for it, but it's a lot easier said than done
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Okay so I've been going "out" with this girl for about 2 months now but we haven't made out and obviously that's just awkward. Anyway we were talking about and have decided to restart on Monday.
Anywho, I know she's expecting a kiss. But I know nothing about anything to doing that. Could someone PLEASE help me?
Take Sally Struther's advice.
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That's not very helpful.
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How cute! I don't know how to help you get rid of your nerves though I could say to go for it, but it's a lot easier said than done
But like I don't know how to go for it. I'm so lost when I get there.
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Are you confused about what the right moment is or how to kiss?

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Are you confused about what the right moment is or how to kiss?
Both.
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post #11 of 58 (permalink) Old Jul 15th, 2006, 04:14 AM
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nah mate...if you's really have that special connection then you'll make something out of the moment...even if you're not that good or dont do it right it shouldnt make things awkward, more like a challenge towards building your relationship. if you have to, make a joke out of it so you're not showing your nervous side and just practise with her a little more.
if you's are heaps comfortable around each other, you could even tell her you're a little nervous and she'll understand.

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post #12 of 58 (permalink) Old Jul 15th, 2006, 04:17 AM
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Just go with the flow and whatever feels good. If the girl likes you she won't really care and she is prob just as nervous as you.

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I know what you're going through, it happened to me a few years ago. When both of you are looking into each other's eyes, it'll just happen. I GUARANTEE you that one, buddy. Once you're both in the zone just keep going, it'll feel natural. If it's not natural then just practise with it. Then stop when you need to, but I've always found that both people want to stop at just the same time. lol Next Lesson... undoing the bra strap, now that needs some written guidelines.
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Just go with the flow and whatever feels good. If the girl likes you she won't really care and she is prob just as nervous as you.

Us girls, we are happy as long as you just make an effort
Don't listen to Erika, she's still waiting for her first kiss too
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Don't listen to Erika, she's still waiting for her first kiss too
That's true ... I'm a virgin ....

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