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Interesting Situation regarding gay guys and girlfriends...your opinion?

So here's what happened.

Last week I was at a party, got kinda smashed, and was talking to my straight friend's girlfriend. We ended up making out for about ten seconds in that way drunk people do. Well, my friend got REALLY pissed, stormed out of the room yelling about how I could do that, blah blah...

Things got worked out eventually, but I found it interesting how my friends were completely split on the issue. Half of them thought I shouldn't have done it and it was disrespectful, while the other half basically said "You're gay, what the fuck could have possibly happened there? He's overreacting."

So...even though it's done with, I'm still curious as to how people would handle that situation personally...
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post #2 of 67 (permalink) Old May 20th, 2006, 06:03 AM
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You shouldn't have done it, and do owe your friend an apology. Hopefully he'll see it was just a drunken moment and be at peace with it. Still, I can sort of see his being upset. He does, however, need to know that it was intended as an innocent thing and not in anyway to take his woman.
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So that's what it takes for a gay to kiss a girl?


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You shouldnt have done it,u are gay but that is not an excuse for kissing ur friends' girlfriends for fun!

Do u think I would find it nice if some of my female straight friends was kissing my girlfriend??.............................
No,I would find it amazing and ask her to join us in the bedroom!!!LOL

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Disgraceful behaviour, you absolutely should not have done it. You're lucky that things got worked out, it would take me a long while to forgive something like that.

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You got lucky. If I was your friend, I would probably have broken your face. If you had fucked her while you were drunk, would you still have used the "I'm gay" defense? It's no excuse, what you did was a complete betrayal.
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Why exactly were you making out with her?
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Being gay and drunk is no excuse, you don't go kissing a friend's girlfriend (nor a friend's boyfriend btw)...

This can't last. This misery can't last. I must remember that and try to control myself. Nothing lasts really. Neither happiness nor despair. Not even life lasts very long. There'll come a time in the future when I shan't mind about this anymore, when I can look back and say quite peacefully and cheerfully how silly I was. No, no, I don't want that time to come ever. I want to remember every minute, always, always to the end of my days.
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I think you should stop drinking if it allows you to kiss your friends girlfriend because that's almost as disrespectful as sleeping with her. Being gay doesn't give you a pass to violate a friends trust in you or a pass to disrespect people. Same goes for his girlfriend....bad form.
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My friend's girl friends, Boy Friends, are off limit even when they break up.....Friendship is sacred to me.....Now if you were drunk that means you were not in the position to make good judgment, and 10 Secs is hardly enough time to cause any serious harm, so I guess you could apologize to your friend and admit it was a mistake kissing his girl friend and hope he will forget about it......

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While we're in here, I need help from the gay guys in here...I have a guy friend and he's really awesome but I'm trying to figure out if he's gay or not (but I dont want to be blunt and ask him, just in case he isn't)...Okay so here's the deal; he has an awesome dress sense for a guy, he hangs out mostly with guys, he always notices my clothing when I get something new etc...like last week he said he liked some chick's shoes. And another clue, he said something about how Italian girls werent that pretty but Italian guys were hot. But then tonight he invited me to his friends party cause he said he'd bored cause they needed more girls. I dunno..maybe he's Bi...but what are your guys opinions anyway?




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I can hardly believe it......... a thread where EVERYBODY shows good sense in how they answered the question!!! I really do think this is a "first" !! And EVERYONE in the thread agrees with the same thing?!?!? Amazing.
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While we're in here, I need help from the gay guys in here...I have a guy friend and he's really awesome but I'm trying to figure out if he's gay or not (but I dont want to be blunt and ask him, just in case he isn't)...Okay so here's the deal; he has an awesome dress sense for a guy, he hangs out mostly with guys, he always notices my clothing when I get something new etc...like last week he said he liked some chick's shoes. And another clue, he said something about how Italian girls werent that pretty but Italian guys were hot. But then tonight he invited me to his friends party cause he said he'd bored cause they needed more girls. I dunno..maybe he's Bi...but what are your guys opinions anyway?
My opinion based on experience is that you should ask him, so you can hear it from him. Otherwise you could go on for years with that strange question in your relationship....... I have guys I've not been sure about for over 10 years!! And I always wish I had just asked up-front right when we started getting friendly. Once you get past a certain point in knowing someone, it's rmuch more awkward to ask.
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While we're in here, I need help from the gay guys in here...I have a guy friend and he's really awesome but I'm trying to figure out if he's gay or not (but I dont want to be blunt and ask him, just in case he isn't)...Okay so here's the deal; he has an awesome dress sense for a guy, he hangs out mostly with guys, he always notices my clothing when I get something new etc...like last week he said he liked some chick's shoes. And another clue, he said something about how Italian girls werent that pretty but Italian guys were hot. But then tonight he invited me to his friends party cause he said he'd bored cause they needed more girls. I dunno..maybe he's Bi...but what are your guys opinions anyway?
Just because he has good taste, it doesn't mean he's gay. If you really want to know, just ask him.
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So here's what happened.

Last week I was at a party, got kinda smashed, and was talking to my straight friend's girlfriend. We ended up making out for about ten seconds in that way drunk people do. Well, my friend got REALLY pissed, stormed out of the room yelling about how I could do that, blah blah...

Things got worked out eventually, but I found it interesting how my friends were completely split on the issue. Half of them thought I shouldn't have done it and it was disrespectful, while the other half basically said "You're gay, what the fuck could have possibly happened there? He's overreacting."

So...even though it's done with, I'm still curious as to how people would handle that situation personally...
What I wanna know is...

Does this mean that you're bisexual (you said you're gay)? If you say you're gay why would being drunk make you make out with a girl? Also are you sorry you did it? Is the straight dude a good friend? I can't form an opinion until I know at least those things.
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