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post #1 of 38 (permalink) Old Mar 28th, 2006, 03:00 AM Thread Starter
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Help!!!!! Bf Problem Help!!!!

Hey i just need to get something off my chest. I have been with my boyfriend for about six months, and he has this friend, right! best friend in fact. We get along well and everything is fine until we went away for our six month aniversary/mutal friends birthday where she confesses to me that she is in love with him. I react well saying it is okay. being completely aware of the fact they have slept together a few years back. now she keeps calling him, tryin to meet him for lonch etc. she even said she is staying at his house on thursday cos her brother is having friends over. i feel really uncomfortable but cant say anything because i dont want to break their friendship and be the bad guy.
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I wish that I could offer you any advice. However, I have never had to deal with these kind of relationships and once I sense drama, I end it. Sorry.

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push that homewrecking whore down a flight of stairs.
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push that homewrecking whore down a flight of stairs.
no, seriously.
What he said.


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I wish i could but they have been friends for years. & while i have a large group of aquaintances (sp?) he has a small group of very close friends & unfortunatley she is one of them... not sure what to do cos i dont want him to think i dont trust him. but i am anxious and nervous cos the pair of them will be alone for the entire night on thursday... she might make her move then.
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I wish i could but they have been friends for years. & while i have a large group of aquaintances (sp?) he has a small group of very close friends & unfortunatley she is one of them... not sure what to do cos i dont want him to think i dont trust him. but i am anxious and nervous cos the pair of them will be alone for the entire night on thursday... she might make her move then.
Why don't you just lie and say your parents are inviting people over to stay at your house for the weekend, and they're gonna give your room to them. Therefore, you will tell your bf that you don't want to sleep in the den and if he really loves you he will invite you over to his house that night too

And then, while you're there, make sure you two have passionate, LOUD, sex in his room with the girl sleeping outside

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Beat that bitchez' ass with a shoe!

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Have a threesome.
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I don't live with MY Boyfriend, but that wont solve the problem. She needs to back off! but i am afraid that if i tell her to, i will look like the jealous over-possessive one. Its really awkward, she rings him at work and tells him that she will be there ready to have luch and if she "got lost on the way to ur house, i will turn the engine off and listen for you"
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Have a threesome.
No way... Me n my boy r bi so that wont work cos she is not the most attractive girl
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men don't think with their brains
if you give him better sex than she did
he won't make any big mistakes
and you shouldn't have to worry about a thing
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men don't think with their brains
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and you shouldn't have to worry about a thing

yes.

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No way... Me n my boy r bi so that wont work cos she is not the most attractive girl
hmmm...another layer. well if this bitch isn't even hot, then that's more reason for her to be dead. want me to do it? i'll cap that bitch for a grand or two.

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push that homewrecking whore down a flight of stairs.
no, seriously.
I concur. Off her.
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They are fucking. Leave him.


....This is fucked up, fucked up....

This is your blind spot, blind spot.
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You just crush yourself and walk away
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