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Phew, yesterday was one of the worst days of the year for me. I am glad it ended. Gosh, it hurts so much that I must say something, somewhere.. I just think it will never end I am horrified of the thought it will never end.

Well, I don't feel better Maybe I need to find another place to tell the story and try to find comfortation in telling it.
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What's wrong, sweetie?

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Please, share it with us and we will make you feel better!
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What's wrong, sweetie?
Sometimes I think everything's wrong. But it's just my depression that comes out. I don't know if I am courageous enough to really tell what's wrong. If I find the strenght, I'll tell my story, just to "get it out" of my system.

~ The Leopard ~, do you believe it's worth telling something in a forum in order to feel better about it?
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Please, share it with us and we will make you feel better!
I am affraid of the judgement as it conserns other people too. You know, Luxembourg and the World in general is a very small place.

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^It depends on how embarrassing it is. Don't put it out there if you might regret doing so later.

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Whoops. That was meant to point to your previous post.

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^It depends on how embarrassing it is. Don't put it out there if you might regret doing so later.
I rarely regret something, if I decide to talk here, it will be ok. It's just that the problem conserns a very special person for me and it may hurt his life if someone knowing him finds this.
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Uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I suffer from a bit of depression as well. I am finding that the circus in my head tends to make things much worse, much more diffucult than they have to be or actually are. I suggest that you find someone to talk to, preferably someone that knows what they are doing.
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Uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I suffer from a bit of depression as well. I am finding that the circus in my head tends to make things much worse, much more diffucult than they have to be or actually are. I suggest that you find someone to talk to, preferably someone that knows what they are doing.
I was diagnosed with severe clinical depression in the beggining of the year. I was talking to a professional about all the problems I had to face in my short life but it doesn't help a lot. I mean, it just got worse. Talking about everything was making it even more live in my head and it hurt so much.. I got medication too but it makes me sleepy and I reduced the dose in order to try to resume my life.

It's really strange as I am someone with a very easy smile, always trying to get the positive from everything. But maybe I got a little bit too much from the life (there's no "acid-smile" smiley?!)
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Well, keep trying....................... My depression is perhaps not as severe as yours. But therapy does help me...
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Well, keep trying....................... My depression is perhaps not as severe as yours. But therapy does help me...
I will keep trying . Maybe the last couple of days it's just a temporary retour of the depression and it will pass as I was feeling better for the last couple of months.

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I was diagnosed with severe clinical depression in the beggining of the year. I was talking to a professional about all the problems I had to face in my short life but it doesn't help a lot. I mean, it just got worse. Talking about everything was making it even more live in my head and it hurt so much.. I got medication too but it makes me sleepy and I reduced the dose in order to try to resume my life.

It's really strange as I am someone with a very easy smile, always trying to get the positive from everything. But maybe I got a little bit too much from the life (there's no "acid-smile" smiley?!)
Damn! From our limited interaction, you seem really nice. You don't deserve this shit.

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Damn! From our limited interaction, you seem really nice. You don't deserve this shit.
I know what she is going through and no one deserves it!
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