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View Poll Results: Should i have asked that Cute woman i met at grad school out?
Of course, she seemed to like talking to you? 13 39.39%
Depends were there other people in the office? 7 21.21%
Nah dont risk it. 1 3.03%
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post #1 of 29 (permalink) Old Aug 30th, 2005, 01:10 PM Thread Starter
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The great gay problem/I suck.

So i was at this office at grad school yesternday and i saw this super hot hotie. so i told her she had nice glasses (me = lame) but she started smiling and we started talking. but there were no clues about her gayness. she definately seemed to enjoy talking to me though. but still i could not tell. so i finished my bussiness and walked out.

this is the great gay problem, if you meet someone who think is hot and how do you know if they are gay? do you ask them out? Do you say goodbye and not risk it? what do you do?

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I would strike up another conversation with her and see if that one goes as smoothy, but I'm not well-versed on "lesbian mating rituals". I mean, if it was a guy you could just grab your dick (pretending to adjust yourself) and see if he responds...but women...

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Is she aware that you are gay?

Just talk to her again...get to know her better....and if after a while you still have no idea...ask her out for coffee or lunch, something informal and out of your work/school environment.

Most importantly....be yourself and relax...even is she is not a lesbian and romance is out of the question, you can still develop a friendship.

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By the way, I voted "You Just Suck" because it tickled my fancy, not because I actually believe it.
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By the way, I voted "You Just Suck" because it tickled my fancy, not because I actually believe it.
i thought it was a fun option i was also hoping to encourage others to add it to their polls.

"racism is dead, it died when MLK walked on a bridge and freed the slaves. Now we have a socialist Kenyan president who is not an American and if anyone mentions race they are a reverse racist (while racism is dead, reverse racism is alive and well.) #whattheyteachyouatfox"
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Is she aware that you are gay?

Just talk to her again...get to know her better....and if after a while you still have no idea...ask her out for coffee or lunch, something informal and out of your work/school environment.

Most importantly....be yourself and relax...even is she is not a lesbian and romance is out of the question, you can still develop a friendship.
well i kind of look like if you are not in the community you would not guess but if you are you might guess. so i cant be sure. but thats part of the reason why i was annoyed, i didnt even get her email or number ! i have bussiness cards in the mail (yay!) so that if feel unsure about asking for contact info.

"racism is dead, it died when MLK walked on a bridge and freed the slaves. Now we have a socialist Kenyan president who is not an American and if anyone mentions race they are a reverse racist (while racism is dead, reverse racism is alive and well.) #whattheyteachyouatfox"
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ask her out!!!
if i see her again i will.

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Too bad you're not in Hollywood, you could just play the 75% gay/25% straight odds.

Did you meet her at like the Gay and Lesbian Student meeting? That could give you a clue. Young Republicans, you're probably barking up the wrong tree. Marlene Deitrich always told me one of the great benefits of having her drop-dead gorgeous looks is, whether a woman was straight or gay, she's sleep with Marlene. So what can I say, hon, unless you're a dead ringer for Marlene Deitrich, you'll have to take a chance at rejection!

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i know what you mean. i dont know why im offering advice but what i would do is:
ask her out as a friend and be flirtatious and see what her response is. the more she enjoys it, the more flirtatious you get. and before you know it, voila
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So i was at this office at grad school yesternday and i saw this super hot hotie. so i told her she had nice glasses (me = lame) but she started smiling and we started talking. but there were no clues about her gayness. she definately seemed to enjoy talking to me though. but still i could not tell. so i finished my bussiness and walked out.

this is the great gay problem, if you meet someone who think is hot and how do you know if they are gay? do you ask them out? Do you say goodbye and not risk it? what do you do?

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i know what you mean. i dont know why im offering advice but what i would do is:
ask her out as a friend and be flirtatious and see what her response is. the more she enjoys it, the more flirtatious you get. and before you know it, voila
wow, i never thought to do that. its kind of evil and kind of hot so you know i am going to have to try it next time.

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I would strike up another conversation with her and see if that one goes as smoothy, but I'm not well-versed on "lesbian mating rituals". I mean, if it was a guy you could just grab your dick (pretending to adjust yourself) and see if he responds...but women...
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A) You do not suck!!!!!!!!!

b) What was the harm in asking her out for a coffee? Something innocent, a chance to get to know each other better! I say go for it!
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