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My sister just got engaged.

and i've been sobbing the last hour because of it.

its not that i'm not happy for her because i am. but she's my big sister. the one who borrows my lingerie without asking. the first person i told when i lost my virginity. the one who always takes the blame for me. the one who covered for me when i smashed the hyundai. the one who lends me her $400 kate spade bag without any conditions. the one who fights and argues with me all the time and yet in the end, lets me win just so i wont get upset. the only one whose advise i actually take.

and now she's going to be leaving me behind.

i know i'm being dramatic but its how i feel. i know that this day would come sooner or later, she's 25 already and she'll be a houseman at the end of the year but its depressing. i mean yes she has been going steady with her "fiance" (god its hard to say it) for about a year and a half and on and off 4 years before that. but i feel awful because i keep hoping that she'll break the engagement. its for purely selfish reasons but i cant help it.i feel like crying all over again.

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Ronnie... Let's be happy then and look at the brighter side of it all
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i cant seem to find the silver lining in this one esther.

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Cry all over again

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Cry all over again
i'm serious ph. i'm feeling really down.

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Is her fiancee hot lol
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i cant seem to find the silver lining in this one esther.
you could try to look at it this way, that your sis is probably going to have a wonderful and lovely life ahead of her
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you could try to look at it this way, that your sis is probably going to have a wonderful and lovely life ahead of her
well if u put it that way....

i'm losing my sister to some newcomer.

and i dont think her fiance is hot aidan.

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i'm serious ph. i'm feeling really down.
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well if u put it that way....

i'm losing my sister to some newcomer.

and i dont think her fiance is hot aidan.
but that newcomer is being married into your family and he's what one would call as an in-law it'll probably take a while for you to accept him into your life
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but that newcomer is being married into your family and he's what one would call as an in-law it'll probably take a while for you to accept him into your life
u're probably right. i mean, i've not really been nice to him ever since they got serious. whenever he was there i beecame all passive and sullen.
i feel like giving him a tight slap now. just an urge.

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u're probably right. i mean, i've not really been nice to him ever since they got serious. whenever he was there i beecame all passive and sullen.
i feel like giving him a tight slap now. just an urge.
it'll take a while though but over time, things would change..it'll definitely change..
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it'll take a while though but over time, things would change..it'll definitely change..
i agree,this is life. Don't worry veronica. with the time, you'll become more and more mature and you won't need your sister that much. try to get closer with some of your friends if you need affection.And your sister isn't dead, you 'll keep on seeing her even it will never be the same. About her fiancée,he managed to make your sister in love with him, so he must be someone nice, not a looser.

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I hope you'll be fine This is what she wanted, right? Try to be happy for her, and then you will forget about your own sadness

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you guys are terrific. i do want her to be happy. and i know i shouldn't cling on too tight. i mean, i do have a baby sister as well, and she'll be lonesome when i leave in a couple of years.

and val's fiance isn't all that bad. i know this. i mean, he was in the hospital with my family offering to help out with watching over me when i was sick. i guess i shouldn't let my selfishness blind me to what a nice guy he is. i mean, even my dog likes him (i was mad that she befriended him quickly). maybe its just that i view him as competition. i'm 2 for crying out loud!i really ought to know better.

i'll be nice.

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