Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas
lmao @ Sally... damn woman, you go!
In all reality, love does hurt sometimes, but it's a good hurt, or maybe ache is a better word. But what you are describing is something different, which has nothing to do with love. It has to do with trust and communication... enough said. I wouldn't suggest following him, but then again I'm not as brave as Sally is. I would suggest asking your friends to help put you in a position where you can witness it yourself. Sorry Shuji, tough situation you have but you'll get through it, we always do. The best thing to do is to stay focused on your game and maybe the physical aspect of it will relieve at least *some* of the stress you have. I hope it all works out for you.
I would, however, keep in mind that you had these friends before you had this boyfriend... so I wouldn't start pointing fingers at them just yet. I have to admit, being a healthy heterosexual male, and once being your boyfriends age, monogamy wasn't at the top of my list of priorities, sorry.