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post #1 of 25 (permalink) Old Dec 24th, 2004, 04:43 AM Thread Starter
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How can I ask this girl out

I like her and i think she likes me but i am too nervous to ask


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do it through sms or email (and make it really romantic )
and if she says no avoid her for a while or tell her u were paid to do it and it was just a joke

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first of all make sure she's not on the board and has seen your profile with like 100 times sex in it, cause she might be a bit scared off

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Are you a man or a woman?

Best solution is this. Buy one single rose. give it to her and kiss her. dont ask dont hesitate, just a straight, no tongue kiss on the lips. Tell her then that you gotta run, but that youd like to come by and get her at 8, that youll be there at 8 and you are taking her to the movies. when they turn the lights out, put your arm around her and snuggle up. like the NIKE Commercial, JUST DO IT! There is no shame in being rejected, only shame in not trying.
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worst thing to do is talk about how you feel, i love you, youre so pretty, etc etc. Just have some fun with her, and take her to a place she likes, the beach, a resto, a pub etc. laugh and joke, nothing more............................
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first of all make sure she's not on the board and has seen your profile with like 100 times sex in it, cause she might be a bit scared off
Indeed! In fact, what if she's reading this thread right now?
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I always think that it is best to tell people how u really feel, however nervous or embarrased you might be. Otherwise you are never gonna know what you could have had with that person.

I mean whats the worst this girl can do, She can say NO sure but even if she does that im sure that she would still be flattered that someone likes her.

Give it a go, and good luck

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I always think that it is best to tell people how u really feel, however nervous or embarrased you might be. Otherwise you are never gonna know what you could have had with that person.

I mean whats the worst this girl can do, She can say NO sure but even if she does that im sure that she would still be flattered that someone likes her.

Give it a go, and good luck

I disagree. ONly tell her how you feel in like 6 months. You have to first surprise her with a show of affection. You should not be protesting love and feelings so soon. She has to earn your love. You are now attracted to her physically and emotionally, but only time will tell if it is "true love". maybe she just wants some affection, and not true love, in which case youd be depriving yourself and her of a nice moment shared together.
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I disagree. ONly tell her how you feel in like 6 months. You have to first surprise her with a show of affection. You should not be protesting love and feelings so soon. She has to earn your love. You are now attracted to her physically and emotionally, but only time will tell if it is "true love". maybe she just wants some affection, and not true love, in which case youd be depriving yourself and her of a nice moment shared together.

Im not saying tell the girl u love her and want to be with her forever etc I am saying that you have to at least tell the girl that you like her or else how the hell are they going to be anything other than friends.

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i like chaotic's way..dominate.......they dont call me andy MAC for nothing ya kno......jsut go for it i mean......what u got to lose..if she dont liek u she will say no thanks and at least u will know....and if she says yes then "jackpot"

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do it through sms or email (and make it really romantic )
NONONO!
I couldnt think of anything more unromantic


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and if she says no avoid her for a while or tell her u were paid to do it and it was just a joke
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Just don't tell her you'd give her money if she went out with you. The police have a dirty word for that. Prostitution.

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Write her a love letter. compliment on her good things

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i like chaotic's way..dominate.......they dont call me andy MAC for nothing ya kno......jsut go for it i mean......what u got to lose..if she dont liek u she will say no thanks and at least u will know....and if she says yes then "jackpot"
finally someone that has the same opinion on this.
In belgium we say: een nee hebt ge, een ja kunt ge krijgen!
which means: you have a no, but can get a yes!
Eventhough I'm a girl, it works, it's how me and my girlfriend got together!

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