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post #1 of 51 (permalink) Old Nov 12th, 2004, 12:31 PM Thread Starter
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Does your best friend consider you his/her best friend as well?

The other day, I asked the buy whom I had always though was my best friend ( I still believe he is ) if he also reckoned me was his best friend.
After a brief consideration, he shook his head and said "well, to level with you, you're sorta weird and it's hard for me to see ya that way.. sorry mate."
I was soooooooo fuckin hurt! By the way, he looked more or less disgusted when I told him that he was my best friend (that was before I asked him the question ). Anyways, this kinda shit can happen to anyone can't it?
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Anyways, this kinda shit can happen to anyone can't it?
Yes. My best friend is no longer my best friend since he started dating this awful guy. I hate his boyfriend and his boyfriend hates me. If I like apples, his boyfriend likes oranges. I pray every day that they break up so that we can be best friends again

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You know... Best Friendships are DOOMED... NEVER Be Best Friends with somebody! I have multiple very good friends... There is non really 'my best one'. It's like having 6 kids and picking a favorite!
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No Silas have to disagree. I've been thorugh so much with my best friend and confided so much in him, that he is irreplaceable. A best friend is not the same as a child - they're less annoying and you can kick them out at the end of a day.

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The other day, I asked the buy whom I had always though was my best friend ( I still believe he is ) if he also reckoned me was his best friend.
After a brief consideration, he shook his head and said "well, to level with you, you're sorta weird and it's hard for me to see ya that way.. sorry mate."
I was soooooooo fuckin hurt! By the way, he looked more or less disgusted when I told him that he was my best friend (that was before I asked him the question ). Anyways, this kinda shit can happen to anyone can't it?
That sounds like something that would happen to me, which is why I don't go around professing my friendship for anyone - Just be glad that they're there and leave it at that. Now I have to go find some friends in order to feel that way.

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I will never have a best friend again. i used to. I disappointed him, and he disappointed me, so now, no best friends except my WIFE. I have a great friend now, but he is only human, i dont need to rank him. he is my friend.
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Well I hope so If you read this M-A, you better agree with me
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I don't know. I tell my best friend he's my best friend all the time
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i've had 2 best friends since the first grade. i cant even choose who's the bester one. and yes, i know i'm their best friend too.

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This is one question that I'm dying to know the answer to. It's been in my head for quite sometime. How do you know if your best friend considers you as his best friend? Well I would really like to ask my best friend(s) but I'm afraid the answer would be "No" and that it could change our relationship into something bad. However, I think we should know the answer to it right? I mean, I guess we can tell if they do and don't. Argh, it's so frustrating sometimes. Because of that, I'd rather not know...what if the truth hurts? I think I should be happy to know that they're my best friends. Right?
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This is one question that I'm dying to know the answer to. It's been in my head for quite sometime. How do you know if your best friend considers you as his best friend? Well I would really like to ask my best friend(s) but I'm afraid the answer would be "No" and that it could change our relationship into something bad. However, I think we should know the answer to it right? I mean, I guess we can tell if they do and don't. Argh, it's so frustrating sometimes. Because of that, I'd rather not know...what if the truth hurts? I think I should be happy to know that they're my best friends. Right?
Would it really hurt though? I have a couple of excellent friends, not sure if i consider them my 'best' friends and i'm not sure if i'm theirs. But what if i'm not? It's not that important as long as they keep being the excellent friends they are to me. I don't need any exclusivity, they can be the great people they are with their other friends too. No need to be selfish about it
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My best friend (a girl) : yes I am her best friend too , we share a lot

But I don't think I'm the best friend of the one I consider my best male friend, well I'm not sure...

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Would it really hurt though? I have a couple of excellent friends, not sure if i consider them my 'best' friends and i'm not sure if i'm theirs. But what if i'm not? It's not that important as long as they keep being the excellent friends they are to me. I don't need any exclusivity, they can be the great people they are with their other friends too. No need to be selfish about it
Well you share everything with that person and to find out that (that) person doesn't treat you the same, well it will hurt a little right? I get your point, well it's okay if everything is the same but if you were to ask the question and find out the answer is no, and they start acting differently because they know they're your best friend, that's the part that I don't want. I guess if asking them would change the relationship then I'd rather not. I'm afraid it will be affected that's all.
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