thank you guys so much for your wonderful words, i just got of the phone i left a message with her mother, who i know is a bit of a jetsetter so it may be some time before i hear back from her, if at all. her mother always liked me so if it is possible and if she feels it is a good idea i am hopeful that she will get back to me eventually.
thank you guys.
its both conforting and sad to hear i am not the brigde burner. i dont too much enjoy being a brigde burner but it seems to be the lay of the land for me sometimes.
"racism is dead, it died when MLK walked on a bridge and freed the slaves. Now we have a socialist Kenyan president who is not an American and if anyone mentions race they are a reverse racist (while racism is dead, reverse racism is alive and well.) #whattheyteachyouatfox