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My brother is smoking

Help me. I am soo lost in my own world. My brother is smoking pot and I see him saying in msn messenger(which he left open) that
Doing the dip says:
listening to some tunes as of now and smokeing lightly

should I tell my parents? Or would that be too much into his privacy. help me

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how old is he?????????

anyway.......its a problem and he should get the help he needs

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he's 20.

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Well he is an adult and should be able to decide rather he wants to smoke or not...

But if you do tell your parents...it shows that you care about him (not that you're not right now of course) and wants to help him out of it
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should I tell my parents in the morning because they're sleeping right now. or what should I do

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smoking pot sux never liked it. but def dont think it should be that big of a deal and def not when the kid is 2o. talk to ur bro tell him ur concerns with it but dont be a rat.
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Going to tattle on your own brother?? Unless your parents specifically told you to tell them if something like that was going on it'd probably be better for you to say something to your brother about his smoking first before you go and rat him out.
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I think u should have some proof first.
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Don't even bother. Telling your parents won't change anything. If you smoke pot, you are trash. Period.


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I hate to break it to you, but if you tell his parents, then they are just going to make him quit. I went to rehab before, probably should go again... and I can be straight faced when I say, you don't quit and get help until YOU are ready to do it yourself, if someone else makes you do it, you'll fall back into the same shit again.

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i do have proof.

PEOPLE- Me and my brother hardly talk. he's not someone who is the best person to confront

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Don't even bother. Telling your parents won't change anything. If you smoke pot, you are trash. Period.
Trash?? He may have cataracts.
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don't insult my brother okay? i did not make this thread for that. I just need some advice on what to do in my situation.

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Confront him about it first.

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but how. i dont even know if i can

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