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View Poll Results: after you end a LTR how long do wait before you start dating again?
1/3 the lenght of time of the relationship or more 1 5.56%
1/4 the lenght of time of the relationship 2 11.11%
1/5 the lenght of time of the relationship or less 1 5.56%
wait? i go on a date that night 10 55.56%
i NEVER date again, i'm a nun! 4 22.22%
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post #1 of 20 (permalink) Old Apr 29th, 2004, 10:44 PM Thread Starter
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after you end a relationship how long do wait?

after you end a Long Term Relationship how long do wait before you start dating again??

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You will know when you're ready, there is no set time.
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You will know when you're ready, there is no set time.
Well... it's been about 3 years now... and I still don't trust anyone.

It also doesn't help that I'm hideous, and nobody asks me out.
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thats true, but i was bored and wanted to make a fun little poll
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Well... it's been about 3 years now... and I still don't trust anyone.

It also doesn't help that I'm hideous, and nobody asks me out.

i dont think your hideous
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i usually have them lined up.

went out with someone for three years and jumped right into another relationship.

big fucking mistake.

its the summer soon, and ill be 21. so im going to try and stay single all summer long. im too hurt to start another relationship anyway.


....This is fucked up, fucked up....

This is your blind spot, blind spot.
It should be obvious, but it's not.

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You just crush yourself and walk away
I don't care what the future holds
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i usually have them lined up.

went out with someone for three years and jumped right into another relationship.

big fucking mistake.

its the summer soon, and ill be 21. so im going to try and stay single all summer long. im too hurt to start another relationship anyway.

aww

i just got out of a relation that was 1.5 years long and i have like 3 women trying to go out with , and as hot as they are i dont think i am ready. sometimes its good to wait. i dont know how long i should wait though though.
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Well... it's been about 3 years now... and I still don't trust anyone.

It also doesn't help that I'm hideous, and nobody asks me out.
I believe you. Your post are spiteful.

I believe you can fuck as much as you want. The problem is that you will be getting others caught up in your drama. Dating can ease of the pain. Nonetheless, you are toast until you think about your ex and feel No Pain. Then and only then has your heart release them. By that time you are ready for your next love.
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you wait until you feel ready again, or just leap right into it. Im a serial monogamist. My 3 serious rships have each followed on virtually straight away... I dont want to label it as a 'rship', saying Imjust having fun etc, but before you know it, a fuck-buddy thing has evolved into my next rship!!

I feel like ive constantly been in rship after rship since I started dating, but as my current BF says 'good product doesnt stay on the shelves for very long' lol

Last time my rship ended I never thought Id be ready to 'date' again, the letting go of someone hurts too much and had me wondering if it was all worth it, but in the end thats life and you move on...
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i usually have them lined up.

went out with someone for three years and jumped right into another relationship.

big fucking mistake.

its the summer soon, and ill be 21. so im going to try and stay single all summer long. im too hurt to start another relationship anyway.
All summer long? That might be hard.
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There's no set time limit; just the state of mind.
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you wait as long as you have to. but if he's easily forgotten well...you carry on. there's no set time. it's a personal thing.
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it took me a long time after my girlfriend broke up with me. actually i screwed up several potentially good relationships cuase i was still stuck on the other one. better to just get back up on the horse!
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Well like most of you are saying, there is no time limit. You just can't hide and stop having fun. Easy to say but if you are able to do it, it works well. Anyways I don't believe in staying together with the same person for the rest of your life without having little adventures with others.

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