Originally Posted by majo
Pheww!! Good, lol!
Originally Posted by nicky
@ Majo & Mark
I agree partly on the giving and returning points thing, it's nice to get rep points back once you've given them.
But just as long as you're not going to balance it off. I've given him/her so much, he/she has only given me so much...now I'm angry...
Oh,and euh...keep things decent in the Lounge, will you Mark
You can't balance it, agreed. I don't expect that either - I've said to a lot of people, and I meant it, that they shouldn't try to give me back every time (nor as much), nor feel guilty about it: the fact that I give to them means that I like them, so... religious stage # 2.5
But if I never
back, not even an acknowledgement, I'm not going to keep giving - I'd feel used. Love cannot keep flowing in the same direction all the time. (But getting angry because of that is ridiculous, of course.)
And what do you mean, keep it decent? She was solliciting - you should talk to her
. "I give, because I love you, and I don't expect anything in return..."
- that's what she said to me...
majo -><- me